On our culture of self-denial and “not the good kind” of sado-masochism

Just a thought…..

this has to do with our culture of pain, and our heavily imbued protestant ethic.

Love has been relegated to an archaic mentality! This is a culture of denial! Pain! Have you ever noticed how sado masochistic our culture is? Instead about talking about the toe curling orgasm, or the way his tongue flicked … we talk about pain, who died, our scars, our injuries…. comparing wounds, instead of pleasure.

ENOUGH ENOUGH ENOUGH… I refuse to participate in it any more. I am a pleasure seeker. I am a fetish enabler… I am a freak, and I am proud, and I am never going to limit myself or deny myself again. I don’t mean excess…. but I do mean hedonism.

We have had love controlled and relegated and squashed. Even QUASHED… no marriage for gays, etc.

I think it is about time to spread radical love in every direction. Wouldn’t it be lovely if you could love who you want, how you want, when you want… without anyone telling you how to do it?

Anyhoo.. these are the things I am thinking four or five days before being 31. It is consuming me.

Cheers all. Hug someone near you.

I hugged three guys on the street last night. total random strangers. I am straight as an arrow, and they were giving me this “are you hitting on me” vibe… they were all looking at one another. I just thought it was a lovely way to meet someone new.

Handshaking is boring.

So freaks…. hug someone, and pleasure someone, and enjoy life a bit more than you are right now.

Cheers.